40 days

Sorry it's been 40 days since I last posted. 

The update - I'm STILL single, haven't been in a proper relationship that's last more than 2 months for too long to mention, and I wonder sometimes if the problem is me? (Don't feel you need to answer that)

So... The last 40 days... There's been three guys only, two were only blips on the radar. 

Let's start with the blips

Rory, he worked in recruitment, he definitely thought he was THE MAN, god's gift to women if you may. We met for what was supposed to be a quick drink, which ended up sharing an uber to our respective houses, (no I didn't let him see where I actually live). It was very very bad partly because he referred to himself in third person when he told a story, secondly because I seem to have lost all my skills to ninja and thirdly because he got all grabby hands with me while waiting for the uber.  As you can imagine there was no good night kiss, just me very quickly jumping out of the car and there was definitely no post date text. 

Cam (Camo), he is allegedly an engineer for an oil & gas company working fifo to Kazakhstan, I say allegedly as I'm not 100% sure anymore if he was. He seemed #almostperfect, almost because he had some dirty tattoos, including CAMO across his chest, which I could've looked past. He seemed very sweet, sounded like he had his life in order and was very keen to get to know me. But that seemed to end as quickly as it started, and it wasn't long before he just stopped replying - even though the dating app we connected through showed when he was online. I'm assuming he found someone shinier and better than me (in his eyes not mine). 

Which brings me to the one who's been on my list since the beginning of December, I give up on him now and then, only to have him surface and surprise me. This one will get a whole post on his very own very soon. 

The good news on the horizon outside of dating is that it's only 77 days to my European trip woohoo! 












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